90-Day Intentional Husband Cohort
Most guys don't need more marriage advice. They need structure and follow-through.You already know what you should do.Be more present. Ask better questions. Stop numbing out after work. Lead with intention instead of coasting on autopilot.The problem isn't knowledge. It's consistency.You start strong. You try for a week, maybe two. Then life gets busy, and you slip back into old patterns. Your wife notices. You notice. But without structure or accountability, nothing really changes.That's exactly why I built this.What if you had 90 days of clear direction and real accountability?
The 90-Day Intentional Husband Cohort is a small group of men (capped at 15) who commit to one thing:Showing up consistently for 90 days — not with grand gestures, but with simple, weekly actions that actually stick.
No overwhelming curriculum.
No "transform your marriage in 30 days" hype.
Just structure, accountability, and other men who get it.
Here's what happens when you join:Here's What You Get:
Weekly Challenges (5–10 minutes each)Every Monday, you get a focused action to complete that week.
Not theory. Not fluff. A specific thing to do.Examples:
Ask your wife one question that leads to a real conversation (we'll give you the question)
Notice one pattern you default to when you're stressed — and choose a different response
Spend 10 minutes planning your week with her needs in mind (not just your calendar)These aren't hard. But they require intention. And when you do them week after week, they compound.Private Accountability Thread (No performance required)Every week, you share how it went in a private group thread.
Not Instagram highlights. Not performative "I crushed it" updates.
Just honest check-ins with other men doing the same work.
"This week was hard. I forgot until Saturday."
"I tried the question. It led to the best conversation we've had in months."
"I'm struggling with this one. Anyone else?"
This is where the magic happens. When you know other guys are watching (and rooting for you), you show up differently.Monthly Live Calls (Real conversation, not a webinar)
Once a month, we get on Zoom to work through what's actually hard.
No slides. No scripted content.
Just open discussion:What's working?
What's not?
Where are you stuck?
How do we think through this together?These calls are capped at 15 guys, so everyone gets heard. You'll leave with clarity, not just motivation.A Framework That Actually Fits Your Life
This isn't a 6-week sprint or a 365-day marathon.
90 days is the sweet spot.
Long enough to build real momentum.
Short enough that you can see the finish line.
It's one quarter. One season. Enough time to prove to yourself (and your wife) that you can follow through.Why This Works When Other Things Don't
Let me be honest with you.
I've tried the books. The podcasts. The "5 love languages" quiz. The date night jar.
They all sound good. Some of them are good.
But here's what I learned the hard way:
Information without structure is just noise.
Motivation without accountability fades by Tuesday.
You don't need another framework. You need a system that holds you to the framework you already know works.
That's what this cohort does.The 3 Secrets to Being an Intentional Husband
Over the last few years of doing this work — and helping other men do it — I've learned three things that make all the difference:Secret #1: Small, Repeatable Actions Beat Big Gestures Every Time
Most guys think they need to overhaul everything.
Plan the perfect date. Have the big talk. Read the marriage book together.But here's the truth: Your wife doesn't need you to be perfect. She needs you to be consistent.
She needs to know you're paying attention. That you're choosing her, not just reacting to her.That happens in small moments, repeated over time.
A 5-minute check-in before bed.
A question that shows you actually listened.
A choice to stay present instead of scrolling.The cohort is built around this. Every week, one small action. No overwhelm. Just follow-through.Secret #2: You Need Other Men in the RoomHere's what most guys won't admit:
We're scared to talk about this stuff.
Scared we're the only one struggling.
Scared we'll sound weak.
Scared someone will judge us for not having it all figured out.
So we stay silent. We white-knuckle it. We try harder in isolation.
That doesn't work.
You need other men who:Understand the pressure you're under
Won't judge you for being honest
Will call you out when you're coasting
Will remind you why this matters when you want to quitThat's what the cohort gives you. A room of men doing the same work. No performance. No pretending. Just progress.Secret #3: Structure Removes Decision FatigueHere's the real reason you don't follow through:
It's not laziness. It's decision fatigue.
Every day, you're making a thousand decisions. Work. Kids. Money. Logistics.
By the time you get home, you're spent. And "be a better husband" is too vague to act on when you're exhausted.
You need to know exactly what to do — without having to figure it out every week.
That's what the weekly challenges do. They remove the guesswork. You don't have to brainstorm. You don't have to get creative.
Just open the email. Do the thing. Report back.
Simple. Structured. Sustainable.Who This Is For
This cohort is for you if:
✅ You're tired of starting strong and fading by week three
✅ You want accountability that doesn't feel like homework
✅ You're ready to stop talking about being intentional and actually do it
✅ You know your marriage matters, but you're coasting more than you'd like to admit
✅ You want to lead at home without losing yourself in the processWho This Is NOT For
❌ You're looking for a quick fix or a magic framework
❌ You need someone to convince you your marriage matters
❌ You're not willing to show up consistently for 90 days
❌ You want a guru or a program that does the work for you
This is for men who know what's at stake and are ready to do something about it.Here's What Happens When You Join the Waitlist
Right now, this cohort is waitlist only.
Why? Because I'm keeping it small (15 men max) so it actually works.
When you join the waitlist, here's what happens:You'll get an email confirmation letting you know you're on the list
I'll email you when the next cohort opens (next one starts February 10th)
You'll get first access to register before I open it up publiclySpots fill fast. The last cohort sold out in 48 hours.
If you're thinking "maybe next time," next time might be June.The Investment
The cohort is $297 for 90 days.
That breaks down to:12 weekly challenges
12 weeks of private accountability
3 live group calls
Access to the private communityLess than $25/week to finally follow through on what you already know you should do.
Compare that to:Therapy: $150–$300/session
A marriage retreat: $1,500–$3,000
The cost of continuing to coast for another year: PricelessThis isn't an expense. It's an investment in showing up as the man your wife needs — and the man you want to be.What Others Are Saying:"I didn't realize how much I was coasting until I had to report in every week. My wife noticed the difference before I did. The weekly challenges weren't complicated, but they forced me to stay intentional. That's what I needed."
— Mark, Cohort 1"The accountability thread was a game-changer. Just knowing other guys were checking in made me follow through. I've tried this stuff alone before. It doesn't stick. This did."
— James, Cohort 2"I almost didn't join because I thought 'I can just do this on my own.' I was wrong. The structure and the group made all the difference. 90 days later, I'm not perfect, but I'm consistent. That's what matters."
— David, Cohort 1Join the Waitlist Now
The next cohort starts February 10th.
If you're ready to stop coasting and start leading — with structure, accountability, and other men who get it — this is your move.
[Join the Waitlist]
Spots are limited. First come, first served.
Whether you join or not, I'm glad you're here.— Larry PaulP.S. — Still on the fence? Ask yourself this: What would change in your marriage if you showed up with intention — not just effort — for the next 90 days? You already know the answer. The question is whether you're ready to do something about it.[Join the Waitlist]